02.09.04
Aggressions expression
Aggression in the bedroom folks….
There’s that fine line between ’sweet lovin’, ‘aggressive lovin’ and ‘S&M’….. so which category do you fall under?
I had the opportunity this weekend to have a pillow-fight-cum-wrestling match with an acquaintance of mine. What caught me out was that in the middle of the sweat and tension, our (ok, maybe just mine!) arousal levels had absolutely gone through the roof, and I hadn’t had so much fun in a long time.
Though nothing came of it (no, not even kissing), just the heavy breathing alone was enough to cure a month of lonely nights for me.
I’m not a violent person, in fact I deplore it, but the scratches and bite marks that are hidden under my clothed exterior are a trophy as such of the fun that I had when (respectfully) pushing those boundaries with another human being.
I wrote this because I enjoyed the experience, and it made me realise how much I miss that aggressive side of my partners both in and out of the bedroom. There’s a certain tension that’s created when you go in hard (no pun intended) and push your comfort boundaries.
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I had a few drinks this weekend, though didn’t really enjoy any of them. It’s funny how quickly you forget the headaches and drained bank balance. I’ve gone onto the health/fitness kick and sticking to it is both fiscally and physically more responsible than the alcoholicly-induced haze that I float under so often 
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Now for something completely nerdy…..
WebCentral has come under an enormous DDOS (Distributed Denial of Service) attack that has brought down their 50,000+ hosted websites for a 20+ hour period.*
Considering these guys have 4,000 megabits of connectivity, that’s one serious attack. (ed: A major company like ours would probably have 2-4 megabits of connectivity…. about 1,500 staff)
Ironically, this is also at the time when Australia is finally getting it’s own F-Root server which is going to be hosted by aformentioned company.
* Basically a truckload of computers simultaneously request a buttload of information from a website at the same time and flood the service out.