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Today yet another chapter in Adam’s Book of Complications has been added. Now because he is currently working like an absolute bastard at work and won’t be able to post today he’s encouraged me to.
This morning at work he received a mild dressing down from a supervisor. The cause of this rebuke was because someone had actually made a complaint to a supervisor regarding Adams behaviour. That someone had felt uncomfortable by Adam being himself, loud and jovial, and giving his Adam hugs (patent pending.)
That’s fair enough, that’s someone else’s own prerogative. But to me if ou have a problem with someone go straight to the source. If Adam gives you a hug or tells a dirty joke that you’re “offended” by, tell him. Once you make something known to Adam he will go out of his way to make sure that it’s followed. He’s uber-sensitive to other people feelings, and making sure people feel comfortable and accepted seems to be part of his genetic make up.
If you have issues with someone, be a woman pick yourself up,walk over to him and say
“I’m offended by…., I don’t like it when….”
That’s all I’m saying. You have a voice, use it.
Because I can guarantee that if you’d done that to Adam he would’ve said ” oh fuck, I didn’t realise I’m sorry” and backed the fuck off.
You didn’t do that, instead he has to censor his behaviour, speech, tone and attitude towards everybody he works with, and some people he socialises with so he doesn’t run the risk of you being offended.
But I’m personally not buying this for a second. The person who has made the complaint, who will remain nameless, is someone who Adam has enjoyed not only a good working relationship but they’ve hung out outside of work also.
If someone gives you the creeps or is doing something that you’re not cool with then don’t fucking catch up on weekends. Or send childish fucking petty sms’ to him. Or persist in helping certain toxic childish girls spread petty rumours around. Or continue to speak with him as normal, right up until he’s told that you’re uncomfortable with him by somebody else.
And to another certain girl who is on Adam’s list of acquaintances, who yet again is not directly involved with this but just sitting on the sidelines. Who has made it her business to know what’s been going on in his life, by sneakily befriending people who were close with him, and then spreading malicious rumours. Rumours that are based on lies, misinformation or hyperbole, rumours that are actually hurting the two people involved who are good decent people and don’t deserve to be dragged to your level.
I can assure you that your previous behaviour towards Adam was something only the most desperate, sad and lonely people could display. I can also assure you that he regrets any and all his previous contact with you, and to me the ideal resolution would be for you to grow the fuck up, come to your senses, get a fucking grip and stop being such a dirty disrespectful little girl. Leave both of them alone and get yourself some help, they’re both better off with you in their circle of friends.
You’re a childish, nasty, malicious, hurtful, spiteful and manipulative girl.
And mostly I have this to say to you, you’re a cunt.
