new girl…. another first timer.
I’ve taken it upon my self to comment on this one cause I think it’s such a interesting topic & is basically a whole new world for me at the moment. Plus I have questions.
Having sex with a number of different people v’s the one partner thing… well in all honestly at 27 it’s only now something that I can really have a opinion on. I was brought up to believe in the whole no sex before marriage thing, well I didn’t quite make it to the vows before the act but I did marry the guy – but that’s another story.
My ex & I split at the beginning of the year & I can now say I’ve had a little more experience in the bedroom department, nothing meaningful – just great sex. Sex can be fantastic with one partner but with me, cause I’d only ever been with my ex, I always had that “I wonder what it’d be like with someone else” thought creeping through my head (yes even when I was soooo in love with my ex, shocking I know). To cut a long story short, at present, I’m a huge fan of the one night stand.
Now comes my questions:
The whole slut v’s nice girl thing?
When does this come into play and why do girls even have to worry about it! Is equality really out there? Is it still the time old thing if a girl sleeps around she’s a slut if a guy does he’s a stud…
How should the morning after thing work?
Basically I’ve just taken their lead so things have been pretty uncomplicated but are there any do’s & don’ts I need to know about?
From the male prospective, if a girl sleeps with a guy on the first night is there any chance of a relationship happneing? (not that I’m really looking for one but this intresting stuff!!!)
I think that’s it for now…
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